I’m getting a lot more settled down in Nagoya now, although
despite having a 5-day working week I’m hardly in any kind of routine. This week me and Rhys have been invited out for meals on three seperate occasions with people from work. I also had a bit of an adventure on Monday night when I went to Toyota to go for a meal with Mayu but got stuck at the wrong station for 20 minutes – I got off at Kami Toyota, not Toyotashi.
When I eventually got there, I was considerably late which is a HUGE no-no in Japan. She didn’t seem to mind too much though, I guess you’re more likely to get away with
things like that when you’re a foreigner and find it easy to get lost. We went to a Korean restaurant, and it was delicious. No cat or dog this time though, I’m afraid.
The next day we went for dinner with some of the people from work who were responsible for us, like Tojo san and Ito san, and also some important people from the hospital. Ishikawa sensei, the hospital director couldn’t come because of a personal matter, but it was still very enjoyable – and because we were at a work function, our nurses were fine with us missing some work for it. We were there for longer than we realised – we missed an entire hour of work (not including our lunch-break). It was fun though, and nice to mingle with some of the people from work and practice our Japanese.
On Wednesday after work, me and Rhys went back to the hospital in the evening to meet with some nurses from his ward at the moment, Urology. Whilst we were waiting in the staff room for everyone to get ready, one of the nurses was telling us about the chicken hands we were going to eat in Sakae, whilst she was brushing her teeth. It’s quite interesting that here pretty much everyone brushes their teeth after every meal. Given that, it’s surprising how few people here seem to have straight teeth compared with England.
We got the chikatetsu (underground) to Sakae and talked to a doctor called Kitmuraken while we walked to the chicken place. He was wearing a Radiohead shirt so we got talking to him about music – his english was very good which was helpful! When we got to the restuarant, there were about 30 people there sat down – like most Japanese restaurants we had to take our shoes off first – then we put them in a box on a shelf which was then locked. Locking them was a bit pointless, not just because they were only shoes, but since I’ve come to Japan I’ve seen people leaving their wallet and phone on the table in a bar whilst they go to another part of the bar to play pool. I’m not sure why it is so safe here, but it’s very refreshing compared to England where you have to check your wallet’s still in your pocket every few minutes.
We got the chicken hand we’d heard so much about, a Nagoya speciality – it was just chicken wings! Some of the nurses from Rhys’ ward had moved over to sit with us and they were shocked to find out we had them back home in England, and that they were pretty common. Then the beer started to flow and we had some half-Japanese, half-English conversations. I already knew Hasagawa, a nurse I was talking to about music a couple of weeks ago, and there were some other cool nurses with her – one of them a girl called Naomi whose limited english consisted of “I LOVE YOU!” and “heartbroken”. They asked us if we had girlfriends in England. I said no, but I was seeing a Japanese girl. From then on I was a ”playboy prayboy”.
We went on to get some ramen and talked some more with the girls from Rhys’ ward. There was a girl called Natsuki who was a friend of Megumi from my ward, who was flirting with Rhys, calling him “kakkoii”. We were talking about music and films – to my surprise she knew who Scarlett Johannsen was from Lost in Translation. She taught us a new word for ’sorry’, which is “sma”, but after using it for a couple of days I found out it was a word used solely by old Japanese men!
On Friday night we were invited out again, this time with the people from my ward, Gastroenterology. We got a bus to the restuarant where we had traditional Japanese food. Along with the obligatory fish, there was a lot of beef, sort of like a fondue. There was also a grill for pork, beef and chicken. It was some of the ta
stiest food I’ve had since coming to Japan, and since it was all very communal it was also pretty fun. We were sitting near Megumi and Dr. Takuya from my ward, so we talked to them for a while. I am often complimented on my chopstick ability when we eat out with people from work. Rhys may have a far better command of the Japanese language, but in a chopstick competition I would win every time.
After the eating was finished there were a few speeches in incomprehendably quick Japanese, as one of the doctors was leaving the hospital and a new one was starting. The night got a lot more fun however, after the drinks had settled in and we moved on to a bar called Popcorn, on the way joking about being “tokidoki hatachi” – sometimes 20 years old! The people at work really don’t mind us being ‘adults’ here despite the age being two years older than in England, which is a relief. It’s a bit frustrating to go from being an adult back to childhood; I always find it a bit patronising when the auxiliarry nurse who gives me my orders, Iinuma-san, calls me “Tommy-kun”. ‘Kun’, like ’san’ or ’sensei’, is a suffix for names, but ‘kun’ is reserved for children.
It was a bit more upmarket looking than our local, Soda Pop, or the places we’ve so far found in Sakae. In the end that didn’t matter though, because to our surprise we didn’t have to pay for anything! Wednesday night was fairly expensive – so it sort of evened out – but it was a very pleasent surprise. The drinks we had alone would have come to about 10 quid, never mind the food. We sat around there for a few hours with several doctors from my ward, Drs Takuya, Hijikata and Yamakawa. It was great fun talking with them as their English was quite impressive – so we learnt some Japanese from them, had them recommend us things to drink and talked about being a doctor. Hijikata sensei was telling me that he dreamed about being a baseball player but had to settle with being a doctor.
We also got our Gaijin (foreigner) cards on Friday, which was a weight off of our minds as before this we had to take our passports with us everywhere. We were standing behind a guy from Manchester who was studying Japanese here – he’d just arrived so he was applying for his card like we had to two weeks ago. Since he could tell we were English, we got talking which made waiting in line not so bad. I’ve seen quite a few foreign students around, as we live very close to Nagoya Daigaku, a large university. Hearing some of them speak on the chikatetsu on the way to Toyota earlier in the week, I realised how lucky me and Rhys were. There was a guy talking about how he was boarding at a Japanese family’s house, and they gave him a curfew of 10pm every night – even weekends. On the other hand, me and Rhys have our own apartments and can stay out as long as we like. The hospital covers the rent also, so we live very comfortably.











































